Expect what you don’t want to expect… Even if it hurts, that way if and when it does, you’ll be prepared.
Don’t take everything that is uncomfortable as harsh… Everything that’s harsh is a lesson and if you don’t learn why live at all.
When the hard comes, take time to figure out “How can I make this work ‘for’ me?” That way when you come out of your struggle there will be less pain and a brighter light at the end of that tunnel.
Be happy always. There is nothing worse then going through something and everyone around you is surrounding you with negative energy. Let it go so it can pass… Cause with all things that too shall pass.